After reading pages from “Its complicated”, I’ve decided that the best way to express my feelings is to take some quotes from this book and give a feedback on them. It’s a good idea, cause some thoughts made me analyze some things. So, lets begin.
«It simply means that teens are generally more comfortable with—and tend to be less skeptical of—social media than adults. They don’t try to analyze how things are different because of technology; they simply try to relate to a public world in which technology is a given.»
Right. I think we are like people with a silver spoon. We are used to having phones with us everywhere. We can’t analyze the information; we can’t understand is it really true or not. Cause why? We have all we need in our phones. Even I sometimes need an advice from adult person, because I understand that they have a different view and can help to identify my words, feelings and emotions into some visual picture. And that’s great.
«Because of their experience and stage in life, teens and adults are typically focused on different issues. Whereas teens are focused on what it means to be in public, adults are more focused on what it means to be networked.»
That’s really true. Comparing our generation and our parents, we can see that we are soo different. We are seeking for attention and maybe some sort of admiration. We do crazy things. Why? Again, attention. But reactions on actions differ. Even to negative things – adults just skip it and will go on, but we will get looped on that. Of course, not everyone, but most of teens will.
«Technologies are often heralded as the solution to major world problems. When those solutions fail to transpire, people are disillusioned.»
Another good point. Often people rely on technologies too much and don’t realize that internet or your phone can’t solve every problem in the world. They are looking for answers but it can be right in front of your eye. And you don’t see it because of the phone.
«Developing meaningful friendships is a key component of the coming of age process.»
It’s easier to find friends when you’re a teen, right? Cause you’re looking at things in such innocent way. Honestly, I don’t agree that its easy to find friends. I had so many friends during my 20 years, but most of them just gone. Most adults say its hard to find someone to be friends with in their age. Not only one person said this thing to me. And I was like: are you sure? Cause for me it was not so easy to find my best friends. And I think it is just a matter of time – all relationships are difficult, but they need efforts.
I guess I can stop at these 4 things but I think I’ll read the whole book because all the author saying is resonating within me.